A mom of four, Jeri-Leah, has a unique style of parenting, claiming in numerous TikTok posts that her only house rule is that there are NO rules.
This means limitless snacks and screen time and no obligation to help with chores whatsoever.
A recent clip she posted about her policy has attracted 10 million views and 16.5k comments because, as you can imagine, it’s very divisive.
“I’m your mum, I’m gonna mother you”
In the now-viral clip, Jeri-Leah revealed her kids never have to lift a finger when it comes to cleaning because she happily does it all for them.
“You don’t have to tidy, I will do that. I don’t mind.
“I’ll put your clothes away, I’ll wash your clothes. That’s my job, I’m your mom; I’m gonna mother you; let me smother you.”
As for meal time, Jeri-Leah’s policy is equally loose: “I’m happy to cook four separate meals if needed. You don’t have to finish what’s on your plate.”
And yes, that means snacking is allowed at any and all times.
“You don’t have any rules, you can go in the cupboards or in the fridge whenever you want.”
No rules on screen time or bedtime
Lastly, Jeri-Leah claims there’s no routine the kids must stick to; screen time on any device is unlimited, and bedtime doesn’t exist.
In fact, Jeri-Leah admits that half the kids pile in with her and sleep in her bed, and she doesn’t mind that they do.
The mom also allows swearing in the house, but not in public.
“I say sh*t, you can say sh*t. But when we’re out in the general public, please don’t do that. They wouldn’t swear in front of nanny; that’s not ok,” the she says.
She also promises her beloved kids can live with her for as long as they want.
Viewers had a lot to say in the comments
The millions of viewers had a lot to say on the post; here’s a snapshot of their diverse opinions:
– “No food rules = healthy relationship with food. Good on you!”
– “I grew up with this kind of rule, and I’m currently overweight, struggle to keep my house clean, am lazy, and sometimes, without realising it, expect things to be done for me.”
– “It’s good that they’re not forced to do things, but I do think it’s a good habit to teach them cleaning up after themselves.”
– “My mom raised me like this, and our relationship is so open and honest.”
– “Strict parents raise sneaky kids, my mom knows everything I do.”
– “I genuinely think being brought up like this is the best way.”
Finally, this pragmatic viewer wrote: “As much as I love how lenient you are, I’d love some rules, discipline is sometimes a blessing in disguise.”
